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Thinking of You, Dad

I see flashes of you smiling benevolently at me when I made a mistake, smile indulgently at my office banters, shaking in good mirth when I lost to you at a game and smile sheepishly when you were wrong & I was right.

I remember those rainy afternoons when the four of us played "Rummy" and when we two used to gesture each other on the sly & cheat you.

I remember the time when you made masala dosa for us and left mom fuming over a terribly messy kitchen.

I remember the umpteen arguments we have had and the number of silly fights we have fought.

I remember you waiting for me at the gate for my return, with an expectant look like that of a child.

I remember the customary once-a-month dinner outings and how we used to argue on how much to tip.

I remember those old anecdotes & stories of your childhood that you would narrate so hilariously.

I remember you telling the history behind those antique silverware or the story behind the winding alarm clock.

I remember you taunting our poor knowledge of English grammer and question us incessantly on Gerunds, participles & infinitives.

I want to hear all of it once again. I yearn to get some more of your worldly-wise advice in your loud booming voice. I wish I could wind the clock back..I wish

The world is celebrating and I am thinking of you.
Its Father's Day and I am missing you, Dad.
Wish you were here.

Comments

Mihir said…
Oh Swetz.. This is so touching.. My eyes are moist.. Can't write more.
Annu said…
Am missing dad soooo much. Almost a week now... everyday goes by just remembering all those bittersweet memories... :( Love u dad... miss u like hell!!

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